“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God” (II Corinthians 1:3-4).
One of the most important lessons I learned from thirty-five years of working with families of infants and toddlers with special needs, is what to say and what not to say. For example, I learned early on never to say to the parents of a child with serious medical and developmental problems, “I know how you feel.” It would be dishonest for me to say so, simply because I’ve never been in their position. Yet, we are so accustomed to saying that to others, no matter whether we’ve known their particular circumstances of pain personally. This now is where the words of the Apostle Paul speak to us, I believe.
There are several things to note. First is Paul’s identification of God as “the God of all comfort.” All means all, does it not? That tells me that he’s fully able to identify with our pain no matter the source, intensity or duration. He possesses all the ability needed to comfort us in all our afflictions and trials. His comfort has no limit or boundary. He’s simply the God of all comfort.
But there’s more. Not only is he the God of all comfort, Paul went on to say that he “comforts us in all our affliction.” From that we can surmise that he not only possesses all the comfort we might ever need, but that he takes the initiative in comforting us in “all our affliction.” I’ve known such limitless comfort from God, and it’s likely you have too. But there’s still more to observe.
Paul makes it clear that once we are on the receiving end of God’s comfort, we are expected to “comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” In other words, Paul wants us to funnel God’s comfort to others in their afflictions. This now becomes very practical for each of us. Here’s what I mean by that. No single person has experienced all the afflictions that are represented in a group of God’s people. No one person can say to everyone, “I know how you feel.” Nonetheless, when God’s people gather, it’s likely that there is at least one other person who has indeed felt God’s comfort in a situation similar to another person, and to whom one might honestly say, “I know how you feel.”
This is where you and I can be very intentional about how God might use us in sharing the comfort we have known with another person. Let me encourage you to be alert to how God might direct you to another individual who is facing something you have faced, something God has comforted you in. When you sense God’s leading, take the initiative in sharing God’s comfort with them as you say, “I know how you feel.” It’s amazing how God uses us in that manner. He does so because he is "the God of all comfort.”
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